Tuesday, 30 September 2008

3weeks to my hols!!!

I’m keeping my fingers crossed for a lottery win at the moment, work is...well crazy is definitely the word. I'm feeling more than a little frustrated with the situation I can tell you, but I’m thinking in these insecure economic times it’s not exactly the right moment to be chucking it all in for a less stressful life.

One client in particular - let’s call him Elmer since he bears an uncanny resemblance to the bastard love child of Elmer Fudd and Arnold Schwarzenegger if ever there was one, who pays for 25% of my time but easily sucks up 40-50% - is generally a big pedantic pain in the arse. He called me on my mobile at 7:53am the other morning. 7:53am!!! It’s not even pigging 8am and he’s calling me and this is the second time he’s done it. Is it me or is that obnoxious? It’s bad enough that he requests I’m available on IM - which is extremely distracting. There I'll be working away and up he'll pop ruining my concentration - but he can take a running jump if he thinks I’m answering the phone to him at that time. There’s no way I’m starting with that game. It’s not like there’s ever a big emergency that can’t wait until 9am. In fact on both occasions he’s called first thing it’s been to discuss an amendment he mistakenly believes we should have made. Usually I get into work and resend him the minutes from the last meeting where the changes were discussed and highlight the point where we didn’t agree to make whatever change he’s fussing over until the following week or some such and then I get a flurry of apologies. It does stress me out though when his name pops up on my caller ID first thing. I tell you I’ve aged since I started working on this particular account just 6 short months ago.


It’s not been completely work work work recently as I did get off to Washington DC/Virginia for a weekend jolly a couple of weeks ago to visit my pal Steph in DC which was very nice. It feels like a distant memory now, but we tottered off to Eastern Market for a browse on Saturday morning, fortifying ourselves with a lovely vanilla latte from
Peregrine Espresso where we marvelled at the foam art leaf in our froth that lasted until the last drop before walking 9miles – 9miles!!! – to see all the major monuments, down the mall, back up the mall to the subway – sorry Metro, they’re very European about their subway in DC* – over to Foggy Bottom station in Georgetown – Foggy Bottom ho ho!! – where we enjoyed a late, but leisurely lunch of pulled pork sliders – mini burger type thingymibobs - by the river at Sequoia before an exhausting afternoon shopping – a top and a pair of trousers from Anthropologie; lovely and much needed retail therapy – walking over a bridge to ummmm…somewhere in Virgina where we got the Metro back to Pentagon City and then home to Steph’s!! We were knackered by the time we got back around 7.30pm, so we just stayed in that night and had cheese and wine at home. Very European of us!!

This past week I had to contend with both work and then a visitor in town for a few days this week so it was a hectic one. My visitor was a friend I was best pals with when I was 8years old, but then I changed schools when I was 9 – the Catholic school had a better reputation - and I didn't see her again until we met for lunch at Christmas last year, 28years or so later. She was in New York briefly before meeting her parents off the Queen Mary II at Brooklyn Cruise Terminal** and then heading down to Baltimore to visit family friends for a week so she asked if she could stay with me.

Let’s just say we got along as well as two people who have nothing in common can possibly get along. I don’t think she’s particularly one for big cities, because she seemed quite indifferent to New York. I had to work Thursday so I left her to her own devices that day and she went out for a couple of hours and walked about 2miles down second avenue, didn't see anything interesting so turned around and headed back uptown and read her book in my apartment all day. If only she'd made a right at some point during her walk she would have hit Bloomingdales or even Fifth Avenue - I'd left her guide books, maps, everything she could need - but she just shrugged and said she wasn't that bothered when I got home around 8pm. Even when I took the day off to show her around on Friday she was very passive and didn't seen to get much from being here. She wasn't miserable, just disinterested. Ironically she was keener on finding a souvenir shop to buy gifts for her friends back home than she was to actually experience NYC. I ask you, what sort of first time visitor to NYC does NOT want to go up the Empire State Building and do all that crap??? I can understand if New York isn't for you, but usually it leaves some sort of impression. It was a bit frustrating trying so hard to come up with entertaining things to do with a visitor who couldn't have given a toss.

Anyway, back to work with me!!

*Whenever you mention DC to someone in New York they always go on and on and on about how great the subway is. Seriously you can't shut them up, so I decided I had to see it for myself. In fact this was my priority experience for the DC trip much to Steph's amusement, however nice though it is, having heard such gushing praise from my fellow New Yorkers I was quite disappointed to find it was pretty much like any other underground rail system you’ll find across Europe.

**A pigging nightmare to get to by public transport!! If such a situation ever befalls you I recommend giving your visitor the money for a cab and wishing them well. Believe me it’s worth the money to avoid having to negotiate whatever obstacles the MTA will throw at you by venturing over there via 2 different subways and then bus to Red Hook. It took us about 3hours on Saturday morning what with all the track maintenance :-(


Amel's Realm said...

YEEEESSSS!!! Count down begins! I'll leave already on Monday to Helsinki and on Tuesday to Indo. Then I'll also spend a few days in Singapore and hope I can meet my Singaporean blogger friends HO HO HO...so watch out for my photos and stories after I get back to Finland at the end of October he he he...

Sorry to hear about the work situation. :-((( It sure sounds frustrating!!! But you're right that it's not the best time to change a job.

GLAD to hear you managed to have some weekend jolly! ;-D

And you're right about showing NYC to a disinterested person. It sure sounded tough! At least I'd be interested in going up the Empire State Building he he he...

fishwithoutbicycle said...

Have a great trip Amel, looking forward to the photos :-)

Kitty said...

lol. I don't understand the hype either about the subway in DC. I quite enjoyed the rail in London, where you could see when the next train was due. The trains there were so easy to navigate, and the signage wonderful.

sorry you're still busy. That's nuts about the early morning call. The clients in our office are much, much crabbier and demanding than usual. I think it's economy-induced.

well, three weeks is not too long, I guess? Treat yourself well and shut off that darned phone!!

Spandrel Studios said...

Was your old chum feeling all right? I can't imagine being in NYC and not flitting from place to place, there's so much to do!!

Between museums, shops and just neighborhood-appreciation walks, there's no way I'd cuddle up with a book when there's so much to explore. And the restaurants?!

Keep your eyes on the prize, Fish... knowing vacation's around the corner can help you get through the stickiest of wickets at work. I'm still relishing the bliss from my own trip last week.

Hope things get better with your high-maintenance client, too!

fishwithoutbicycle said...

Thanks Kitty, unfortunately for me this is my client's natural disposition. He can be infuriating. Fortunately between vacation, Thanksgiving and then Christmas, there isn't so much more of 2008 to endure. Have a good one.

Hi Spandrel, I have no idea what was up with her, she just wasn't that interested in NYC, but if you are going somewhere on vacation I would have thought you'd want to make the most of it. Glad to hear you had a lovely blissful trip away. 3weeks today and I'll be boarding a plane to Hong Kong ;-)

Blur Ting said...

Oh that client of yours, don't ever get on IM with him or you might just end up having to hide from him the entire day!

You're really busy busy busy. I feel like a sloth compared to you :-)

fishwithoutbicycle said...

Hi Blur Ting, unfortunately I have no choice with the IM and my client. Sigh!!!

thewishfulwriter said...

GASP! You were in DC and I didn't know about it?

tsk. tsk.

I forgive you. This time. But only because I forgot to call you before 8am and didn't pop up on IM to demand you make time for me.

So, really, I guess it's my fault....


fishwithoutbicycle said...

Hi Heather,

Oooh, I didn't realise you were so close to DC. My friend Steph is in Virginia too, Shirlington. We could have met up. Darn it!!! Next time!!

Lady Di Tn said...

Wow what a funny image. A love child of Elmer and Arnold. Caller ID is worth it weight in gold. I have to admit I always look before I answer if I answer.
Glad you had fun in DC and played tourist.
A a stagnet house guest. In the south we call such folks, a door because you would have gotten more from a door.

fishwithoutbicycle said...

Hi Lady Di Tn, y'know I would have got more out of talking to the door. I ask you ;-) Thanks for stopping by.

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